4 Critical Things to Know Before You Hire a Divorce Lawyer

Choosing who will represent you in your divorce is a big decision. While it makes sense to ask people you know for recommendations or even to engage the ‘free’ services of a friend of family member to help you, here are 4 critical things you should know before you hire a divorce lawyer:

What kind of support is best suited for your case. Not every divorce is handled by an attorney litigator. Many people are unaware that there are divorce mediators, collaborative attorneys as well as litigators. Some mediators are attorneys and others are not. With a number of options available, the first important thing to understand is what kind of representation or support is best suited for your situation.

Who your partner’s attorney is if they have already hired one. One of the most significant wastes hire a divorce lawyerof money in divorce is spending money on attorneys who have a track record of battling it out rather than finding ways to help a couple settle. While it may feel counter-intuitive to hire two separate lawyers who know each other and have a track record of working with one another, this can actually be one of the best things you do for your case. The healthiest thing for any couple and family is a quick and fair settlement so hiring attorneys who can help you achieve this while protecting your personal rights is a smart choice.

Who you really need on your team. One of the biggest misconceptions that people have is that their attorney can help them with every part of their divorce. They bring all their issues – legal, emotional and financial directly to their lawyer. Your lawyer is your legal expert only and there are other professionals such as certified divorce financial planners, divorce coaches and therapists who can help you address other issues more effectively and in a more cost efficient way.

The family court culture in your county. One of the most overlooked factors in hiring an attorney is how well they are recognized and known within the family court system in which they will be operating. While hiring the top rated attorney can feel like great protection, if they are unknown or not well regarded within your local court system, you may be at a disadvantage. 

Deciding how you will divorce and who will represent you is a critical decision that can have significant financial and emotional ramifications. It is important to make this decision thoughtfully before you hire a divorce lawyer.

 

For a complete step-by-step guide to hiring an attorney and navigating your divorce, visit www.divorcecompanion.com.

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Adina Laver is the founder of Divorce Essentials™ and author of the Divorce Companion™ a multi-media step-by-step guide to navigating divorce.  The Divorce Companion™ is the only resource of its kind that provides guidance and decision making tools for every aspect of the divorce process, including determining whether divorce is the next step.

Adina also provides limited one-on-one coaching support for those who recognize that divorce is a sign that life has gotten off track and are aching to finding happiness again – or perhaps for the first time ever.

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4 thoughts on “4 Critical Things to Know Before You Hire a Divorce Lawyer

  1. Marcus Morgan

    Hiring a lawyer is a big decision and you want to make sure that you make the right choice. This article has 4 critical things to know before hiring a divorce lawyer. This article helps you think before acting and makes you consider everything to make sure you’re making the right choice in what you are picking. Thanks for posting this article, it had a lot of great info.

  2. Douglas Brown

    Distinguishing your divorce lawyer from your divorce therapist is actually a brilliant thing to point out. They are really there to help move the actual divorce forward, while a therapist can help emotionally. Great tips and advice for preparing for what can be such a difficult time for anyone.

  3. Kyle Karthway

    There are also things couples need to consider before they even hire an attorney for divorce. How about trying to get help to save the marriage first, talking to an attorney together and trying to be as civil as you can in order to make sure the right decision is being made for the family, not moving out of the marital home until speaking with an attorney, being careful with extramarital affairs as these can affect alimony and taking the proper steps for both parties to secure or safeguard each other’s assets.

  4. Davis

    I love your advice that we probably shouldn’t rely on our lawyers to also be our therapists. I’ve met lawyers who exemplify empathy and a listening ear, but therapy isn’t what they were trained to do. It reminds me of a dear friend who went through a divorce a few years back, and she was incredibly emotional throughout the entire process. I really felt for my friend, but I also felt sympathy for the legal expert who had to essentially wear two hats.

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